A recent AARP study shows that Baby Boomer women are talking to their aging parents about end of life issues. Few, however, are putting this information to use. The study, “Are Americans Talking with Their Parents about Independent Living: A 2007 Study Among Boomer Women,” discovered approximately two-thirds of women older than 45 have discussed independent living and assistance scenarios with their aging parents.

The study, released late in 2007, found that while the vast majority (69%) of the women surveyed already had these difficult discussions, less than half (40%) had taken action in transforming these conversation into care plans.

The survey also explored the care options available for parents unable to take care of themselves. Forty-three percent of respondents would welcome their parents moving in with them, while 33% would hire help and allow them to remain where they are. Nursing homes were considered an option for their parents by only 17% of the women asked.

The AARP telephone survey also found that 68% felt their parents were financially prepared to pay for independent living assistance costs. In addition, more than half were aware of community resources available for their aging parents, including transportation, meal, adult day care and living facility assistance.

Starting a conversation about independent living can be a daunting proposition. It is important to begin this dialog before it becomes a necessity. Talking to your parents before the need arises will make the transition from independent living to an assisted living experience smoother. To start this talk with you parents, and even your own children, visit the Tips for Communicating with Your Loved One section of AGIS.com.

As the discussion moves to home choices for your parents, you can use the Steps for Finding Housing, and find what Housing Options are available near you. You might also want to consider ideas if your parents plan on Staying at Home.

Paying for these choices is an important part of the planning process. AGIS has links with lots of excellent information in the Legal & Financial section. You can also search for resources in your area in the Find Facilities & Services section.

If you would like to see more results from the AARP study, you may download the entire report here.

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